Thursday, 31 March 2016

"I'm not going to bed until you have sucked me to be pleasing"

Yesterday flew by, funny how some days do that. It's probably because I met up with a mate you know good times :) 
Arriving back from seeing my mate I get myself in the cage and wait for Sir to get home from work. I wasn't in the cage long and Sir was home! we chilled out for the evening watching our favourite shows. 

Time was getting on and I was making Sir his sandwhiches for work. Knowing Sir has to be up very early for work I mention that he will be in bed soon. He says dominantly im not going to bed until you have sucked me to be pleasing with a grin on his face. Yes Sir I reply with a grin on my face. 

In bed I suck him as he desired and thoroughly enjoyed it. Sir always compliments me on my technique which makes me feel AWSOME. We have been having an issue with my reactions to things I don't like. He came on my face and I screamed which is a bad idea I must say because then it goes in your mouth! Lmao! 
Anyways and a few other times I have freaked out which he hates. I have concented to all acts so I can't really do anything about my reaction once it's done. Just say sorry Sir. 
So last night he was able to cum in my mouth and I swallowed with out a reaction. Sir was proud and very happy with me. I was proud as punch too :) 

Daisy 

30 days of submission: Questions 7-9

7) Do you accept and/or expect discipline or punishments as a part of your submission? 
How do you feel about it?
Yes we do have a discipline/punishment dynamic. I struggle to use the word punishment because of my past but Sir is helping me with that. Disciplines for us are quick like a smacked leg, smacked mouth for swearing or a belt slap. Sir is not a sadist and I'm not a major masochist. We have minimal pain in our dynamic. 
Punishment I have only had one in the two years we have been together. I told him to F off on text which resulted in a more harsher consequence. He slapped my back with the belt and I had to spell the word out. 

8) Is spanking or corporal punishment a part of your submission? 
Why or why not?
Spanking very much is! I adore spankings! Corporal punishment.. I would say no, I'm a little so that isn't really needed 

9) Do you accept and/or expect structure, rules and limits as a part of your submission?
How do you feel about them?
Yes we do have rules and structure and I would be lost without them! I can do a post on my rules if you would like to see that. 
Yes I also have limits. I submit in everything Sir needs me to submit in. That doesn't mean he wants control in everything he doesn't. I have recently concented to having a girl play with me which was massive for me! 

Daisy 

Wednesday, 30 March 2016

Evening Restraint

Yesterday I had just had a bath and came downstairs. I sat on the sofa and Sir said daisy go get the night ropes and chains, ok Sir. Coming down with ropes and chains in hand Sir says lie on the sofa on your tummy hands behind your back. I do. Sir hog ties me and I watch the tv. I felt soooo content. After about an hour Sir unties some of  the restraints and ties me differently. The chains were across my tummy positioning my hands either side of my hips. I rested on Sirs knee and he played with spike the whartenburg wheel. This was only the second time we had played with spike. Sir said I did very well and was a good girl :)
The fire was on, Sir removed my top and I knelt by the fire with only knickers and a collar on warming by the fire resting on his knee feeling so very happy. 

Tuesday, 29 March 2016

Ravaged bottom and mouth

Hello pumpkins, 

Easter weekend was a bit of a flop. The weather was stormy but Easter isn't really a massive deal anymore. Just an excuse to eat choccies and colour in bunnies and baby chicks which I did of course. We did go to church though and that was lovely. 

This morning I woke removed my ropes from my wrists and headed downstairs where Sir was sitting. After morning snuggles and kisses I ate my breakfast by his feet. A little while later Sir says dominantly dressed! and points upstairs. I was just heading off after a few oh we going out? oh I thought you were going out? He grabs me and ravages my bottom cheeks with delicious spanks. He then said kneel with my bottom throbbing under me I suck him and he ravages my mouth and stops as soon as he started. Tears in my eyes from a good sucking I head up and change. Three times Sir sent me back up! one for lipstick, one for a pony tail not pigtails and one for eye liner! It's a good job I love the fella goodness me what a dominant sausage he is :) 

Friday, 25 March 2016

Thursday

Hello pumpkins, 

I sit here with one of my guinea piggles  as I update this. 
Yesterday Sir worked nights and will be again tonight. Which leaves me to feel lost without him ha no well I do feel lost sometimes but I mostly enjoy watching the TV and my toons. We did our usual top up food shop nothing special there, we watched Jurassic World and played with the nipple clamps :) 

Sir left at 5, I had a phone call with my mum in the cage actually as it has the best signal lmao! 
I just chilled out in the evening, but sadly Sir couldn't text much :( 
When Sir works nights it's always annoying and minimal D/s occurs 

Bit of a boring log sorry about that but not everyday is full of blow jobs and restraint 

Daisy 

Thursday, 24 March 2016

30 Days of Submission: Questions 4-6

4) Do you switch into a dominant role at any time?
If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you?
I don't switch into a Dominant role at all. The thought makes me very uncomfortable 

5) Have you been or are you in a dominant/submissive dynamic relationship or is this new to you? Have you been in more than one D/s relationship? How were they the same? How were they different? What is unique about your relationships in your mind?

Yes my first one was abusive I would rather not go into it. My second was D/s but very minimal and my third is with Sir now :) 

6) What do you feel are the roots of your submission? 
Do you think it has something to do with childhood? Is it a relationship management tool as in the practice of domestic discipline? Is it a sexual thrill or something else?
I don't know the roots to my submission. Just that it's naturally there, it's a need, it makes me happy but parts do of course turn me on 

Wednesday

Hello pumpkins, 

I sit here in nipple clamps as I type this. Sir is trying out a new chain and it is rather heavy which is not a bad thing ;) 
Yesterday after Sir got me out of the cage we had a catch up on the bed. I'm a little so I love to sit over him as he lays flat and we just catch up on our day. I told him I had my first comment, I was so excited! when I'm excited I clap my hands and er slapped his face on both cheeks in excitement. Sir was not too happy with being slapped and in return slapped my leg. He made a hand print! I needed cuddles after that but I was ok. I was just staring at the hand print! 

After we decided to get a Chinese so out we went. We watched the lady in the van and had a lovely evening. I sat by his feet until I asked to join him on the sofa. I am very clingy so when I sit with him I sit on the arm, legs by his and hug his neck. But I know he loves it. 

We went up to bed, Sir put my wrist ropes on and we fell asleep. In the morning we had a lovely play time. Sex in the morning is the best start to the day! 

Daisy 

Wednesday, 23 March 2016

Tuesday

Yesterday I had a sweet day. I woke at 10am like I should had breakfast and watched some programmes. Then headed to the cage. I coloured for Sir and also applied for a local job. Sir came back around 7pm he let me out of the cage which is my favourite bit! I hug him or sit on his knee and tell him about my day. He smacked my legs for leaving all the lights on. We are trying to save money. I told him I started a blog and he was pleased saying good girl!
Coming downstairs we made pan cakes and chatted in the kitchen. We couldn't find anything to watch so we just sat and talked. Him on the chair me on the floor by his feet with the table close. I don't have to sit there everytime but I love to.
After tea I took a bath, Sir came up and sat with me for a bit. He looked tierd I knew he wouldn't be late to bed.
After the bath I get myself my milk and we settle to watch catfish. Sir went up after that as he is up so early for work. As he was walking up the stairs he said bed 11:30! yes Sir :)

Tuesday, 22 March 2016

30 Days of Submission: Question 1-3

1) Does your submission – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label?
Do you view your submission as Taken in Hand, domestic discipline, top/bottom, dominant/submissive, master/slave, owner/pet, or some other description or combination? If you do not use a label, why?
I would describe my dynamic as Dominant/submissive. Sirs calls me pet and I adore the cage but I do not see myself as an animal. 

2) Describe who you might submit to and how.
Are you exclusively submissive in marriage or just in the bedroom? Are you submissive only in the context of a scene or in a role or throughout your daily life? Are you submissive to play partners or only in the context of a relationship? 
I am submissive to my partner of nearly 2 years. We are not married but we plan to be in the future. I am submissive in and out of the bedroom. I'm submissive and aim to please him 24-7. 
3) How do you know you are submissive or have the potential to be submissive? 
How do you feel when you express your submission?
I know I am submissive because I long to please my Sir. When I have pleased him it's the best feeling in the world. Nothing comes close! Also I desire control and structure too 

Daisy 

So it begins!

Hello pumpkins, 

I have been reading many D/s and M/s blogs for a few years now. Ever since I became active in the lifestyle. My Sir noticed how often I read other peoples blogs and commented that I should have my own. At first I was cautious and nervous but now is the time! 

I will start with introducing myself. My name is Daisy I'm 23, 24 next month and I live with my man and the love of my life my Sir. He is the Dominant haha obviously and I am his submissive. I am a little and we live together so I could say yes we live D/s 24-7. He is not my daddy and even though I am a little we do not practise DD/lg.  

You will have to exuse me as I am not the best writer! but maybe blogging could help that? I have no idea if anyone will read my blog. But I plan to use this place as my diary. I already write my diary on my phone. I thought I could just transfer it to here and make posts that way. 

Anyways that's the introductions out the way.. I may start with the 30 days of submission questions. That might be a good way to ease into this blogging lark! 

Daisy