Saturday, 30 April 2016

Silent Comands πŸ‘‡

Sir showed me a clip the other day, the girl made the wrong sandwhich for her Dom. Without words using just hand signals he commanded her to take his belt off and she was disciplined. My Sir clearly loved that as soon I was face down bum up between Sirs legs like the girl on the clip was. Sir slapped me playfully with the belt  and I loved it. I better watch Sir carefully so I can do as I'm told without hearing his words as he wants to enforce silent commands. 

Sir showed me another clip, this girl was chained to a pole and "living" in a small room. Sir says gleefully "she lives there!" seeing my Sir so delighted it stuck in my mind. I texted him later when he was out about it. His reply showed me I will most likely be chained to my cage soon and Sir will be visiting me for bjs not that I'm complaining ☺️

Daisy 

Sunday, 24 April 2016

My Rules πŸ”

My rules are always evolving, some stay if they work and others get discarded if they don't 

1. Daisy your to be out of bed at 10am! 

2. You are to wash face, brush teeth and fix hair in morning 

3. Complete your exercises in the morning 

4. Daisy you are to shave twice a week 

5. Your to bath yourself, if you have been a good girl I will bath/shave you

6. Do as you are told when you are told to Daisy!  if there are issues with it you can discuss it after with me 

7. Clothing - you are to wear your wrist /ankle cuffs in the house 
Unless stated otherwise wear knee highs/dress/top 

8. Refresh your hair before I return, look pleasing 

9. My pet will be caged when I work in the day - 4 days a week 

10. Orgasms are denied and only rewarded for good behaviour! 

11. My pet is to wear the rope cuffs at night and in the cage if not in wrist cuffs already 

12. My pet is to use the specified plate and cup: no other plates/glasses 

Those are my rules currently, there are as we speak a few more in some areas that are being introduced. One of which is nudity in the house. 

Daisy 

Friday, 22 April 2016

My New Collar!!πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–



Kneeling by Sir he gifted me a package, taking a look inside I was met with the most stunningly perfect collar I had ever seen!
Sir had my collar specially made and I was so overwhelmed with its beauty!

Kneeling infront of Sir, I lift my hair and Sir collars me with my beautiful new collar. Thank you my darling Sir my new collar is beyond perfect, I cant believe how perfect it is.

:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
I hope you are all well

Daisy

Tuesday, 19 April 2016

The crop has moved! 😟

The crop which normally sits on top of the wardrobe. Is now hanging on it's own nail by the sofa where we sit, at grabbing distance! This makes me nervous 😈

Reclaimed πŸ‘‹

I arrived back home to my Sir and was just chilling watching corrie. Sir mentioned sex which set me spiralling into a horny craving pet. Please Sir can I have the wand? I beg. Yes Daisy Sir replies, elated I run upstairs. The wand resting on my clit I asked are you going to be evil or nice? Knowing he was heading for the shower, he could have easily said I was to have the wand buzzing but not orgasm until he was out of the shower. But 😊😊😊😊my Sir was so generous to me and let me orgasm 5 times! I thanked him and thanked him! I said he was generous to his pet, he said well it's been a few days πŸ˜„
Sir then suddenly slaps my leg it stings and leaves a red hand print. That's for orgasming before I said you could! 

Sir heads in the shower, feeling fuzzy I doze. Sir wakes me with a playful swat on my bottom. My bottom half is naked and he begins to play with my petals. Moving me over to the sofa he enters me, mmm it was so good! He pounds me and says "I'm reclaiming my pet!" Yes Sir I reply πŸ˜† 

Goodness it's SO good to be home! πŸ˜†

Daisy 

Saturday, 16 April 2016

It's only been a day or so πŸ“±

Away from Sir visiting my mummy I text Sir 

Daisy: Please say something dominant to me I'm dying!

Sir: LOL it's only been a day or so 
Go put your hair in a plait and brush it properly for 10 mins 

Daisy: Yes Sir 

Sir: Good girl 

Daisy: Did you like that? 

Sir: That's not brushing your hair for 10 mins is it! 

Lmaoo πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚❤️

Friday, 15 April 2016

Away from home 🏑

Just a quick post to say im away from home and Sir for a long weekend. Im visiting my mum and my friends here which is lovely. I went to Thorpe Park today! it was rainy but so fun!
 I miss you my Sir πŸ˜”πŸ˜˜

Thursday, 14 April 2016

Last of the questions!❓

26) What are the qualities you seek in a dominant partner and why?
Are some qualities deal-breakers as in “must” haves or “must not” have?
Monogamous! 
Not a sadist! 
Understanding 

27) Do you have submissive desires or fantasies that you have yet to be able to explore? 
Do some of your desires confuse or frighten you? Do they excite you?
Hmm not really ummm I really want sex in the shower but submissive ones I don't have any that come to mind yet I'm pretty content 😊

28) Has your submission ever let you down?

Nope I've never regretted my submission, it's never let me down and I've never been criticised for it 

 29) Is pain or humiliation (spankings for example) a part of your submission?
What is your relationship to it? Do you embrace it as a part of your submission, tolerate it as necessary or have some other type of relationship with it?
 Wowah since when are spankings humiliating? Yes I am spanked but I do not find it humiliating. Apart from spankings which is apparently humiliating hahaha no we are not into humiliation at all. Some might say the cage is humiliating but it isn't to me it's my love 😊

30) Is your need to submit being met? 

You will be very happy to hear Sir yes it is! πŸ˜†

Yay that's a wrap 😈

Wednesday, 13 April 2016

Tuesday, 12 April 2016

New collar! 😬

We had some great kinky fuckery yesterday 😈
Sir said "come here Daisy" pointing to the sofa, head down bum up! Sir showed me this pump thing because with new things I always have to be introduced to it otherwise I get anxious. Sir attached it to my petals and I sucked him. It was wierd I tried my best to suck but kept staring at the pump. It hurt a bit, more like a pinch. Sir took it off and moved me over the sofa and fingered me, licked me then entered me. He pounded me good and hard, such sweet goodness! midway he said get the wand quick!! me like arghhh run up and get the wand. He presses it against my clit and I ask to cum! I orgasm an explosive orgasm making me all shaky. Sir held me cuddling me saying good girl!! I'm floaty and immensely happy. Sir said "see new things aren't bad are they" no Sir I reply. "3 new things too!" I'm fuzzy and take a while to think, 3? I say I say the pump, the position which was balancing on my feet on the sofa like a frog πŸ˜‚and I fingered your ass as you came Sir states. Me like 😟 I smile. I really struggle with anal due to a past situation. The fact he entered there and I didn't even feel it gave me such confidence! 

After Sir gave me a drink of water we headed upstairs to bed. Sir slipped on the rope cuffs and turned the radio on. We chatted to each other when he attached the lead which is my favourite! 
My collar which I've had for nearly 2 years is falling apart. I mention can I have a new one then Sir announced " I might already have one Daisy!" I'm bouncing around going really really! I can't wait to wear my new collar and I adore that Sir has gone out and chose one! πŸ’–

Daisy 

Monday, 11 April 2016

30 days of submission: Questions 23-25

23) Is there anything about submission (yours or what you see in others) that you question, dislike or repels you?
Was there a time you questioned or were resistant to your own submissive feelings?
Lets start with the absaloute no nos for me! 
- Water sports 
- Scat play 
- Medical play 
- Whipping 
- Nappies, dummies
- Needle play 
- Knife play 
- Being degraded/humiliated 

I get confussed with labels some times within dynamics. But I can see every dynamic is different. If it works for you then great. I just focuss on my power exchange but there is deffinately times I think wow that's too far. 

24) What are the emotions that most directly let you access submission?
What feelings do they inspire?
Really unsure about what this question is asking.. I'm always in a submissive mindset or always try to be. When I'm too busy with work related things I loose my mind set which has happened in the past. We try to avoid that, I feel in the mind set when my head is clear. 


25) Are there items, objects or rituals that represent or help you express submission? 
If not, have you ever thought of adding or being gifted one? Is there a special significance to these objects or rituals?
Oh yes for sure! My collar is my main item that expresses my submission. I have a house collar which is pink, has jewels and a bell on it. Then I also have my everyday collar which is a chain locked on my neck, which I was given about a year into my relationship with my Sir. 
Objects there are loads that express my submission. The lead, the wrist/ankle cuffs, the ropes, mr snugg (butplug) and the handcuffs. All those objects feed my submission aswell as the crop. 

Yes we do have rituals, but I am unsure if they are rituals. They are more routines. We have a weekly cage routine, the rope cuffs are placed on at night by Sir and the radio is turned on. Sir also baths/ shaves me and I always say thank you after he has cum in me or inside me. I just always have :) 

Nearly at the end now with these questions. I hope they have helped to get to know me more. If you would like me to expand on a certain area just drop a comment and let me know. 

Daisy 

Sunday, 10 April 2016

Discipline πŸ‘‹

Before Sir left for work yesterday he said cuffs and chains on in bed! 
Skipping to night time when I moved upstairs to the bedroom. I realised I left the chains downstairs! I had just turned all the lights out and it was night time. Basically I was too scared to go down to get them. 

Morning comes I sleep in my cuffs on my wrists and ankles but not with chains. Sir strides in to the bedroom going hello daisy! you happy? you a good girl? ummm before I even say no he says no your not! get here! I bend over the bed and Sir corrects me with hard spanks to my bottom. I said sorry Sir and explained. Also when I'm home alone at night I don't like to be restrained. If there is danger or anything I can't run. I'm sure it's my little that makes me feel that way. Sir said I know daisy but I wanted the chains on. I will have to be brave and triple doubly check the doors are locked!

Daisy 

You can use the wand but don't orgasm!

Yes Sir, wooowzaaaas talk about difficult! I'm not allowed to orgasm without permission and the stupid pleasure feeling didn't fade! and I was SOOO close to cumming.  I thought to myself go on just orgasm then *thinks of Sir* no no don't! don't!  πŸ˜†

Saturday, 9 April 2016

My reward for cleaning πŸ˜†

Friday I was going about my day while Sir was at work. I get a text from Sir saying "If you get the house spotless I will reward you with D/s play and sex ☺️ xxxxxxxx" 
Hmmm can't say no to that now can I! I'm 23 and my relationship with domestic chores were terrible, I would say we weren't even on speaking terms aha. Now though 2 years later I would say we are on honey moon πŸ˜†

I finish watching my programme and get cleaning. I clean up for nearly an hour. I want to make him proud more than I want sex but c'mon sex is sex. What a motivation! 
Sir arrived back he commented he was proud and I was a very good girl which made my tummy all floaty. 
He let me out of the cage late because he was late back. So we headed for a quick tasty dinner at McDonald's. After a fatty dinner we headed home and just chilled out. 

In bed I got my reward Sir made love to me with added hand on neck gripping. It was beautiful. Making love to us is different from sex. Making love is about connection, love of course, it's slow and passionate. Sex to us is dominant, I'm not allowed to orgasm without Sirs permission, our roles are present very much. 

Moving on to the next day which is today. Sirs shifts are changing at work which is unsettling for us. We will have to alter our routine but hopefully it wont mess up our routine too much. 
We popped to the shops and got lots of yummy dinners. We just chilled out around the house. We had meatball pasta for tea, over the knee spanking, few swats here and there and I am wearing wrist chains. Before Sir left for work he had me suck him which I appreciated. I miss him, I feel lost when he works nights. Looks like it's time to binge watch My Little Pony again πŸ˜†

Daisy 

Friday, 8 April 2016

30 days of submission: Questions 20-22

20) Has your submission increased or decreased over time?
Have you ever had to renegotiate your submission due to a change in your feelings or circumstance?
My submission has increased over time. My submission has been challenged like it should be. I was challenged recently with my Sir about two months ago. He was unhappy and grumpy. When he figured what was making him feel that way he told me and it was pretty big! He said he needed more control, that's fine I could do that. He said he needed control in 4 areas 
- Anal 
- Cumming on my face 
- Playing in car 
- Me playing with male and females 

Those were my hard limits! he said we wouldn't be able to continue without because he had tried to live without and couldn't. 
I took a lot of time to make my decision. Talking to him through negotiations and I made my decision to concent to them. We came to an agreement that we were both happy with. I was at peace with it and I wasn't worried. 
Since then Sir has cum on my face I don't like it still haha but it isn't so bad, I can cope with it. We have played out in the car at night twice. Both went really well! I am yet to play with others.. but a girl has licked me and that was totally cool. Our agreement when playing with others is Sir will not play with the girl and the guy (he's straight) he will only play with me and direct me. 
Anal we are working on, we know it's going to be a very very tough one. I know if anyone can get me over my feelings towards anal it's my Sir. 


21) Is there a physical position that makes you feel most submissive?
Yes bottom up head down haha, kneeling and crawling :)

22) Can you feel submissive without a Dominant partner? 

If that means when my Dominant is away? then yes I still feel submissive. I have a reminder around my neck  :) 
I can feel lost when he is away but always connected to my submission. We have rules in place and structure for me to stay centred and happy.  

Thursday, 7 April 2016

Day out with Sir

We headed out to A large shopping centre yesterday. The sun was shining, both me and Sir were in a good mood. 
We browsed the shops, we looked at a new bag for me, a watch and candles for Sir. Sir bought me a new colouring book and pens :) 

We had a lovely lunch at my favourite restaurant Cafe Rouge. Sir enjoyed his meal and when we were stuffed we headed home.
I took a bath when we got in, Sir sat with me for a bit then headed downstairs. In the evening we just chilled. Sir wanted me to watch The Adams Family. It wasn't my thing but being the good girl I am I watched it ;) 
Sir said to collect the lead, rope cuffs and hand cuffs and bring them downstairs. I jumped to it! Sir said to get the handcuff key so he could hear the clicking sound of the cuffs bless him. He restrained me and we watched the TV together :) 

A odd moment happened the other day. Sir playfully smacks my legs quite a lot. I thought he was just doing it because he enjoys it but turns out there is a reason behind it. He slaps them the same everytime and from my reaction he can judge my mood. I jokingly said do you know what smacked legs feel like? No he replies, will you let me smack them. Expecting a no I was surprised he said yes daisy! 
I tentatively pull his trousers down and dither about haha double checking there won't be any consequences. There won't be. And SLAP I smack as hard as I can and Sir doesn't even move!! but my hand is all sore and red lmao 

In other news my petals (lady bits) are practically back to normal. I sense kinky fuckery on the horizon :D

Daisy 

Wednesday, 6 April 2016

30 days of submission: Questions 17 - 19

17) What does trust mean to you in the context of submission?
Trust is paramount. Trust enables me to further my submission to Sir because I trust he has my best interests at heart and he will not damage me. 
You don't really have a relationship if you don't have trust. When Sir asks something of me like do my exercises in the morning Sir trusts they will be done or he trusts I will confess to him I haven't done them. 

18) How does communication factor into your submission and how do you communicate your desires and needs?
Very often the stereotype of submission is that the submissive person loses the ability to have an opinion. While that clearly isn’t true except in the absolute rarest of occasions,
Haha, I used to be terrible at communicating my needs to my Sir. I had to get over the anxious thought asking is dominanting. Once I got over that thought I was ok. I know that asking my Sir for something is not topping from the bottom. It is still his decision and he can only evolve his dominance when he knows what I need. 
I do not agree that a submissive looses the ability to have an opinion and voice. That statement makes me very angry! Its called a power exchange for a reason you exchange the power because that's what both parties need. If that's your thing to have no voice or opinion fair enough but it's not mine. I know if I left it all up to my Sir to decide everything to do with D/s I probably won't be as fulfilled as I am now. For example if Sir focussed on the domestic duties side. That would make me miserable as I am a kink submissive. He only knows that by me saying that and asking for so and so. 

19) How socially connected is your submission?
Do you look for others to talk to about your submission for support or networking? Do you go to events or connect through another sort of social grouping either in person or online?

I've never been to a munch, events or met with other people in scene. I was kind of private but thats changing. I don't have any in scene friends but that would be nice. I'm sure now I have my blog I can meet people :) 

Tuesday, 5 April 2016

"You've been very good today" 🌈

Hello pumpkins, 

I hope your all well, I'm dandy but my lady bits I call my petals are so sore! 
Yesterday Sir took me upstairs and attacked me (in a nice way) fingering me, making me all juicy and I was allowed to cum thank you Sir. We had a sudden stop because my eye was stinging like hell. Sir ran out to get a flannel to get whatever is in my eye out. 

Downstairs I'm all fuzzy and my petals were on fire haha. I say I need a cold sponge! I sit with a cold sponge between my legs for a good 30 mins. That felt soothing, Sir kept smiling at me. 

We had to compose ourselves as we were due to see a family friend. 
On the way back I was craving fatty food so we got McDonald's and we took it back home to watch plebs. Sir had me take off my leggings in the car. So he could see my bare legs. 

Night approached, I headed to the bathroom. I walked into the bed room and I could see the wand, handcuffs and blind fold set out. Sir put the handcuffs on me and the blindfold. He had me kneel down on the floor and I sucked him as he used the wand on me. I wasn't allowed to cum then. That was harrrrd but soo good!

Play led to sex and sore sex at that. But that sore sex that just turns you on more. 
It's all Abit of a blur and I was a crying mess at the end. I don't know why I cry? a release maybe? Sir likes it when I cry so it doesn't affect us in a negative way. 

Sir headed for a shower and I requested  a bath. 
The water was hot and I shouted for Sir. I couldn't sit down in the water! my petals stung too much. Sir had a great idea to place the sponge down and sit down that way. Honestly it's so funny! I love having sore lady bits but I don't like pain so it's a mind F!

In the bed we were cuddling. Sir says to me "you have been so good today" thank you Sir I replied, you know it means the world to hear that 

Happy Daisy 

Saturday, 2 April 2016

Reactions!

Reactions hmm... I have a funny moment to share with you about that today. 
I was in the cage where Sir put me, he let me out and we played around on the bed. After a few spanks I lay in a 69 position and lay on Sirs leg by his manly bits. Sir has my bottom by his face and kisses it. I suck Sir, doing some deep throating. Sir proceeds to cum on my face. Second time it's happened now and I loathe it! Sir was so good and praised me so much. I hid my face under the towel he used to wipe up the mess. Sir says you don't like that do you? no Sir I reply I feel degraded. Sir then says oh well I can't cum on your chest then (my favourite) no Sir I say you can. No no daisy it's no different it's just a body part. He was trying to comfort me. 
I go to cuddle Sir and kiss him and he like freaks out going yuckkk pulling away from me! I was like Sir reactions!! If I'm not allowed to react your not either! He really didn't want to touch my face where HE just came! he was thinking it over and finally he kissed me and touched me where he came. 

Sir takes me to the bathroom to wipe my face again. Then he said my favourite thing to hear, take a bath daisy, yes Sir with pleasure! 

Daisy 

30 days of submission: Questions 13-16

13) Is sexual availability, being available to your partner any time he or she wants, part of your submission?
Why or why not? Are there limits to this?

Yes I've handed over control to Sir for him to decide when we have sex and how often. I know Sir loves to control sex but my Sir is very moral and even though he has control of when we have sex and how often it doesn't mean he takes advantage of me. We have sex frequently but Sir doesn't over use me at all. We always have a day or two in between having sex so I never feel pressured to have sex I always want to :) 

14) Does religion have any bearing on your decision to submit? 
If not, are you familiar with religious based submission and do you view it as similar to other types of submission or dissimilar?

We are Christians but we do not involve our faith in our power exchange. We just have confidence that our Lord is in favour of Dominance and submission. 

15) Has your submission evolved over time? 
If so, how has it evolved for you and if not (or if you are just starting out) how might you see or imagine it evolving in the future?

Yes very much! I started out very minimal with hard limits like playing with others, anal, cumming on my face. Being with my Sir he has given me the confidence to let go. Sir needed control in these areas and over time I let go through trusting him. That is still fairly new but we have already made steps in those areas. 
 I see myself evolving more. I know Sir has control in all the areas he needs but if that changes then I will be challenged again in my submission. One thing I will not budge on is having a second submissive. Absolute no no! 

16) Have you found your submission has changed with different partners/relationships?
If you’re involved with partners of both sexes, does your submission relate or change based on gender or does it depend on the person?

I've only ever been with men and I haven't had a female Dom me so I don't know! 

Daisy 

Friday, 1 April 2016

"You have 11 minutes to make me a cup of tea"

Sir said as he headed to the shower. I managed it just in time ;) 
In other news from today Sir let me orgasm :D :D :D :D :D :D :D is that enough smiley faces? Aha 

Daisy 

30 days of submission: Questions 10-13

10) Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your submissive relationships? 
How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the submission part)?
All of my long term relationships have been D/s with elements of Bdsm. I can't be in a relationship with someone who isn't Dominant. Submission is deeply routed in me, it makes me dreadfully unhappy without. 

11) Do you include service as a part of your expectations of your submission?
How do you define service? What does it mean to you? If not, what is it about the concept of service that is not for you?
Urm... I am not really a service submissive. I love to please my Sir but I am not into cleaning the house top to bottom and making home cooked meals or being used as a foot stool. It just doesn't suit my personality. I don't know if it's due to me being a little, but Sir does most of the cooking. I clean of course but not to high standards. I do make Sirs sandwhiches for work and please him by making him a cuppa. I don't know maybe the service will develop as I get older? 

12) Do you include financial submission within the definition of your own submission and if yes, how does it manifest itself?
If no, is there a particular reason why? Are you familiar with the concepts of financial submission? Do you have an opinion about financial submission in general?

I don't know what that is? 

Daisy